你身边有开放式的婚姻观吗（谈谈开放式婚姻）

你身边有开放式的婚姻观吗（谈谈开放式婚姻）女性的性自由也开始受制于社会控制和法律。一个女性最私人的决定开始成为公众关注事项，“女人应待在家里”、“女人本性上更适合一夫一妻制”在人类最早的丰收时代萌生，这时，

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Three linked beliefs—that a woman is a man's property that a woman's place is in the home and that women are more "naturally" monogamous—were planted in humanity's earliest harvests when a woman's most personal decisions were transformed into a matter of public concern and her sexual autonomy subjected to social control and legislation.

三个相关联的观念：

“女人是男人的财产”、

“女人应待在家里”、

“女人本性上更适合一夫一妻制”

在人类最早的丰收时代萌生，这时，

一个女性最私人的决定开始成为公众关注事项，

女性的性自由也开始受制于社会控制和法律。

This momentous change was put into motion 10 000 to 12 000 years ago in the Jordan Valley where hunter-gatherers began to domesticate plants increasingly depending on food they grew rather than food they foraged. This was a watershed moment—the rise of agriculture.

这一重大改变发生于1万至1.2万年前的约旦河谷。当时的狩猎采集者们开始种植作物，相对于四处觅食，他们越来越依赖于种植作物。这是一个分水岭时刻——农业开始兴起。

The narrative goes that as humans began to focus more on crops and less on freewheeling hunting and gathering we settled down (literally) grew up (figuratively) and created the circumstances conducive to "progress." With crops came the unprecedented luxury of food surpluses. We began to store what we could—grains—for the long term thumbing our noses at the natural disruptions that had previously caused catastrophic shortages. We not only multiplied as the story goes we "civilized." We built permanent villages and established larger denser communities.

据说，随着人类从传统狩猎和采集越来越多地转向农业种植，我们“安顿”下来（字面意思），开始成长（比喻），并创造了有助于“进步”的客观条件。

农作物为我们带来前所未有的食物过剩。我们开始储存能够储存的食物——谷物——以便于长期食用，对之前曾会造成灾难性食物短缺的自然不利条件嗤之以鼻。

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《谈谈“开放式婚姻”（3/3）——在这里，过去，从未过去》

长期的两地分居，成为 Himba部落生活方式的一部分。成为他们生活一部分的，还有“不忠”，人类学家将其称为“配偶外关系”、“多次交配”或“配偶外性行为”。

在Himba部落，已婚男性带其中一位妻子去放牛点，或在放牛点另外找个女朋友，这种现象并不少见。而且当丈夫不在家时，很多 Himba 已婚女性也会找情人。

Modified on 2019-09-25

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