在孤独的时候一个人说晚安（都是自顾不暇的大人）
在孤独的时候一个人说晚安（都是自顾不暇的大人）To me they are like light after light in ordinary life.However every time I was disappointed they would throw me a life buoy and tell me to get ashore quickly.于我而言，他们就像是平淡生活里的一道又一道光。I really appreciate those friends who are willing to listen to the negative emotions in my life. After all not everyone has the obligation to accept my emotions.Without them I might have struggled in the emotional
真的很感激那些，愿意倾听我生活里消极情绪的朋友，毕竟不是所有人都有义务接收我的情绪。
如果没有他们，我可能会在情绪泥潭里挣扎得更久。
然而每次当我失落失望时，他们就会抛给我一个救生圈，然后告诉我要赶快上岸。
于我而言，他们就像是平淡生活里的一道又一道光。
I really appreciate those friends who are willing to listen to the negative emotions in my life. After all not everyone has the obligation to accept my emotions.
Without them I might have struggled in the emotional quagmire longer.
However every time I was disappointed they would throw me a life buoy and tell me to get ashore quickly.
To me they are like light after light in ordinary life.
翻手机，发现跟好朋友的聊天记录堪比一个巨型生活记录仪。
在手机里我可以找到，哪年哪月没来姨妈，哪天晚上突发失眠干掉了一整只炸鸡，丢了一个月的袜子藏身何处，以及一些永远不会有交集，但你却对他了如指掌的男人们......
虽然有时候我恨透了手机这个东西，但是翻看聊天记录和相册时又会觉得感激。
I turned my cell phone and found that the chat record with my good friend was comparable to a giant life recorder.
In my mobile phone I can find my aunt who didn't come in which month who had a sudden insomnia one night killed a whole fried chicken where to hide the socks lost for a month and some men who will never intersect but you know him like the back of your hand
Although sometimes I hate mobile phones I feel grateful when I look at chat records and photo albums.
那些鸡毛蒜皮，那些鸡零狗碎，一天天一年年串成了现在的彼此。
哪怕相隔了很远很远，但因为这样的存在，我就永远不会有漂泊感。
这么说可能有点浅，但我的废话回收处以及屁事处理中心，里面守着的一定是很爱很爱我的人，也是我很爱很爱的人。
Those trivial things those bits and pieces day by day and year by year have become each other.
Even if it is far away but because of this existence I will never have a sense of drift.
It may be a little superficial to say so but there must be people who love me very much and I love very much in my nonsense Recycling Office and asshole disposal center.
都是自顾不暇的大人，能照顾我情绪，听我倾诉还教我为人处事的人，实在是难得，我特别感激。
They are adults who are too busy to take care of my emotions listen to me and teach me how to behave. It's really rare. I'm particularly grateful.
突然发现“我懂你的意思”这句话好有力量啊。
这几年体验过词不达意的无助之后，特别感激那些真正懂我、明白我的人。
在他们面前，我不用小心地组织语言，也不怕哪句话说错被误解，有暖意融融舒适的安全感。
Suddenly found that "I know what you mean" is so powerful.
After experiencing the helplessness of unspeakable words in recent years I am particularly grateful to those who really understand me and understand me.
In front of them I don't have to carefully organize the language and I'm not afraid of any wrong words being misunderstood. I have a warm and comfortable sense of security.
疫情之后，其实已经习惯了戴口罩、出示健康码、检测核酸的日子，逐渐放弃出国旅行、看演出的想法。
也有打起精神，勤勤恳恳认认真真地生活。
只是有时候想起来还是好恨啊，如果没有疫情，我的人生会更好一些吗，答案是肯定的吧。
After the epidemic I was used to wearing masks showing health codes and testing nucleic acids and gradually gave up the idea of traveling abroad and watching performances.
There are also people who cheer up and live diligently and seriously.
But sometimes I hate it when I think about it. Would my life be better without the epidemic? The answer is yes.
和人世间那些热气腾腾的朋友在一起吧！
是她们把你生活变得热闹，奋力把你从不敢求助的孤独里拽出来，拥着你往前走去。
她们让你在日常的冷寂里感觉到年节的暖。
你不敢说谢谢，但你知道人生花团锦簇，某一刻终于和自己有关。
Stay with those steaming friends in the world!
It is they who make your life lively pull you out of the loneliness you dare not ask for help and hold you forward.
They make you feel the warmth of the new year in the daily silence.
You don't dare say thank you but you know that life is full of flowers and flowers and one moment is finally related to yourself.
我发现所有把握不好的关系，都是因为小事太较真。
明知道这种小事大可不必去较真，给自己添堵，可就是跨不过去忽略不了。
很容易细想，就导致自己越来越爱多想，对每段关系都很真，也越来越敏感。
I found that all bad relationships are because small things are too serious.
Knowing such a small thing you don't have to be serious and block yourself but you can't cross it and ignore it.
It's easy to think about it which leads to more and more thinking being true to each relationship and becoming more and more sensitive.
被身边的人认真对待本身就是一件极其走运的事，所以即便是在这样的日子里，也觉得每天都有很多纯粹的幸福感在。
无论是被陪伴还是和好朋友一起消磨人生，和喜欢的人分享生活片段，都很好。
Being taken seriously by the people around you is an extremely lucky thing so even on such days I feel that there is a lot of pure happiness every day.
It's good to be accompanied spend life with good friends and share life fragments with people you like.
【图源：二白不吃香菜 】
