how to keep yourself的英文作文（双语美文Sheisthe）

how to keep yourself的英文作文（双语美文Sheisthe）wǒ bú zài yǒu nà zhǒng huàn xiǎng 。bú guò ，wǒ jīng cháng zài gān nǎi dí zhōng xīn de jiē shàng de cān guǎn chī fàn 。wǒ bú xiǎng zài nà lǐ xiě dōng xī ，xiàng fǎn ，wǒ kàn zhe lù rén 。我不再有那种幻想。不过，我经常在甘乃迪中心的街上的餐馆吃饭。我不想在那里写东西，相反，我看着路人。我的一个执着的幻想是坐在巴黎的一家路边咖啡馆里，一边抽烟一边用笔在笔记本上写字，我不会写经济学的。我会写小说或者诗歌甚至哲学论文。但我会经常提出我的眼睛看着那个女孩走。wǒ de yī gè zhí zhe de huàn xiǎng shì zuò zài bā lí de yī jiā lù biān kā fēi guǎn lǐ ，

She is the Whole World To Him

她是他的整个世界

tā shì tā de zhěng gè shì jiè

One of my persistent fantasies used to be of sitting at a sidewalk cafe in Paris .I would be writing with my pen in a notebook while smoking.I would not be writing economics. I would be writing a novel or perhaps poetry or even a philosophical treatise.But i would frenquently raise my eyes to watch the girls go by.

我的一个执着的幻想是坐在巴黎的一家路边咖啡馆里，一边抽烟一边用笔在笔记本上写字，我不会写经济学的。我会写小说或者诗歌甚至哲学论文。但我会经常提出我的眼睛看着那个女孩走。

wǒ de yī gè zhí zhe de huàn xiǎng shì zuò zài bā lí de yī jiā lù biān kā fēi guǎn lǐ ，yī biān chōu yān yī biān yòng bǐ zài bǐ jì běn shàng xiě zì ，wǒ bú huì xiě jīng jì xué de 。wǒ huì xiě xiǎo shuō huò zhě shī gē shèn zhì zhé xué lùn wén 。dàn wǒ huì jīng cháng tí chū wǒ de yǎn jīng kàn zhe nà gè nǚ hái zǒu 。

I no longer have that fantasy. I do however eat from time to time outdoors at a restaurant on the street leading to the Kennedy Center. I don't try to write there.Instead I watch the passers by.

我不再有那种幻想。不过，我经常在甘乃迪中心的街上的餐馆吃饭。我不想在那里写东西，相反，我看着路人。

wǒ bú zài yǒu nà zhǒng huàn xiǎng 。bú guò ，wǒ jīng cháng zài gān nǎi dí zhōng xīn de jiē shàng de cān guǎn chī fàn 。wǒ bú xiǎng zài nà lǐ xiě dōng xī ，xiàng fǎn ，wǒ kàn zhe lù rén 。

I am not concentrating on girls.I am concentrating on married couples and i look particularly at the women.They are not glamorous.No Marilyn Monroes.Some are pretty but many would be considered plain. since they are on their way to the Kennedy Center to attend a play an opera or a concert one may assume they are above average in cultural literacy. in other respects they are like most people average.

我没有关注的女孩。我专心的已婚夫妇，我看起来特别的女人。他们没有魅力。没有Marilyn Monroes。有些是漂亮的，但很多人会认为是平原。由于他们要去甘乃迪中心参加一个戏剧、歌剧或音乐会，人们可能认为他们在文化素养上高于平均水平。在其他方面，他们和大多数人一样，都是普通人。

wǒ méi yǒu guān zhù de nǚ hái 。wǒ zhuān xīn de yǐ hūn fū fù ，wǒ kàn qǐ lái tè bié de nǚ rén 。tā men méi yǒu mèi lì 。méi yǒu Marilyn Monroes。yǒu xiē shì piāo liàng de ，dàn hěn duō rén huì rèn wéi shì píng yuán 。yóu yú tā men yào qù gān nǎi dí zhōng xīn cān jiā yī gè xì jù 、gē jù huò yīn lè huì ，rén men kě néng rèn wéi tā men zài wén huà sù yǎng shàng gāo yú píng jun1 shuǐ píng 。zài qí tā fāng miàn ，tā men hé dà duō shù rén yī yàng ，dōu shì pǔ tōng rén 。

But to the man whose hand or arm she is holding she is not "average". she is the whole world to him.

但对于她手或胳膊的男人来说，她并不是“普通人”。她是他的整个世界。

dàn duì yú tā shǒu huò gē bó de nán rén lái shuō ，tā bìng bú shì “pǔ tōng rén ”。tā shì tā de zhěng gè shì jiè 。

Genesis says "And the Lord God said 'It is not good that the man should be alone;I will make him a helper fit for him'" And so "made he a woman." it doesn'tsay that he made a pretty or a witty woman or an any kind of adjective woman. He made the basic woman.

Genesis说，“主上帝说：“这是不好的，人应该独自一人；我要为他造一个帮手适合他”，所以，“为他造了女人。”doesn'tsay，他做了一个漂亮的或聪明的女人，或任何一种形容词的女人。他造就了最基本的女人。

Genesisshuō ，“zhǔ shàng dì shuō ：“zhè shì bú hǎo de ，rén yīng gāi dú zì yī rén ；wǒ yào wéi tā zào yī gè bāng shǒu shì hé tā ”，suǒ yǐ ，“wéi tā zào le nǚ rén 。”doesn'tsay，tā zuò le yī gè piāo liàng de huò cōng míng de nǚ rén ，huò rèn hé yī zhǒng xíng róng cí de nǚ rén 。tā zào jiù le zuì jī běn de nǚ rén 。

Why is this basic woman so valuable to the man?Three things:

为什么这个基本的女人对男人如此有价值？三件事：

wéi shí me zhè gè jī běn de nǚ rén duì nán rén rú cǐ yǒu jià zhí ？sān jiàn shì ：

First she is a warm body in bed. I don't refer to sexual activity. That is important .But I refer to something that is If possible even more primitive:human contact.

首先，她在床上是个温暖的身体。我指的不是性活动。这是很重要的，但我指的是，如果可能的话，甚至更原始的：人与人之间的接触。

shǒu xiān ，tā zài chuáng shàng shì gè wēn nuǎn de shēn tǐ 。wǒ zhǐ de bú shì xìng huó dòng 。zhè shì hěn zhòng yào de ，dàn wǒ zhǐ de shì ，rú guǒ kě néng de huà ，shèn zhì gèng yuán shǐ de ：rén yǔ rén zhī jiān de jiē chù 。

A baby crying in its crib doesn't want conversation or a gold ring. He wants to be held and patted . Adults need that physical contact also. They need to cuddle together for warmth and comfort in an indifferent or cold world .The plain woman an d plain man do that for each other.

婴儿在摇篮里哭，不想说话，也不想戴金戒指。他想被人牵着，拍拍。成年人也需要这种身体接触。在冷漠冷漠的世界里，他们需要拥抱在一起取暖和安慰。

yīng ér zài yáo lán lǐ kū ，bú xiǎng shuō huà ，yě bú xiǎng dài jīn jiè zhǐ 。tā xiǎng bèi rén qiān zhe ，pāi pāi 。chéng nián rén yě xū yào zhè zhǒng shēn tǐ jiē chù 。zài lěng mò lěng mò de shì jiè lǐ ，tā men xū yào yōng bào zài yī qǐ qǔ nuǎn hé ān wèi 。

But conversation is also important .These couples may have been talking to each other for 30 years or more. You might think they have nothing left to say.But still they can talk to each other in ways they cannot talk to anyone else.He can tell her of something good he has done without fearing she will think he is bragging . He can count on her interset and understanding.

但交谈也很重要，这些夫妇可能已经交谈了30年或更长时间。你可能认为他们没有什么要说的，但他们仍然可以用他们不能和其他人交谈的方式交谈，他可以告诉她他所做的一些好事，而不用担心她会认为他在吹牛。他可以指望她的兴趣和理解。

dàn jiāo tán yě hěn zhòng yào ，zhè xiē fū fù kě néng yǐ jīng jiāo tán le 30nián huò gèng zhǎng shí jiān 。nǐ kě néng rèn wéi tā men méi yǒu shí me yào shuō de ，dàn tā men réng rán kě yǐ yòng tā men bú néng hé qí tā rén jiāo tán de fāng shì jiāo tán ，tā kě yǐ gào sù tā tā suǒ zuò de yī xiē hǎo shì ，ér bú yòng dān xīn tā huì rèn wéi tā zài chuī niú 。tā kě yǐ zhǐ wàng tā de xìng qù hé lǐ jiě 。

The primary purpose of this conversation is not to convery information Its purpose is to say "I am here and I know that you are here"

这次谈话的主要目的不是来传递信息，它的目的是说，“我在这儿，而且我知道你也在这里”

zhè cì tán huà de zhǔ yào mù de bú shì lái chuán dì xìn xī ，tā de mù de shì shuō ，“wǒ zài zhè ér ，ér qiě wǒ zhī dào nǐ yě zài zhè lǐ ”

Third the woman serves the man's need to be needed. if no one needs you what good are you? other people-employers students readers-you say the need you. But in such relationships you are replaceable at some price.to To this woman you are not replaceable at any price. That gives you the self-esteem to meet the world every day.

第三，女人满足男人的需要。如果没有人需要你，你有什么好处？别人雇主，学生，读者你说需要你。但这样的关系，你也可更换一些这个女人你是无论如何都不可替代的。这给了你每天面对世界的自尊。

dì sān ，nǚ rén mǎn zú nán rén de xū yào 。rú guǒ méi yǒu rén xū yào nǐ ，nǐ yǒu shí me hǎo chù ？bié rén gù zhǔ ，xué shēng ，dú zhě nǐ shuō xū yào nǐ 。dàn zhè yàng de guān xì ，nǐ yě kě gèng huàn yī xiē zhè gè nǚ rén nǐ shì wú lùn rú hé dōu bú kě tì dài de 。zhè gěi le nǐ měi tiān miàn duì shì jiè de zì zūn 。

So this "ordinary"woman-one like 50 million others in America-as great value to this man. And while I have written these views from a man's point of view I don't think the relationship is one-side. On the contrary I am sure it is reciprocal.

所以这个像美国其他5000万个人一样的普通女人对这个男人来说是很有价值的。虽然我从一个男人的角度写了这些观点，但我并不认为这种关系是一方的。相反，我确信这是互惠的。

suǒ yǐ zhè gè xiàng měi guó qí tā 5000wàn gè rén yī yàng de pǔ tōng nǚ rén duì zhè gè nán rén lái shuō shì hěn yǒu jià zhí de 。suī rán wǒ cóng yī gè nán rén de jiǎo dù xiě le zhè xiē guān diǎn ，dàn wǒ bìng bú rèn wéi zhè zhǒng guān xì shì yī fāng de 。xiàng fǎn ，wǒ què xìn zhè shì hù huì de 。

I can hear you saying:" How do you know all this?you are only an economist practitioner of the dismal science." That is true.But my wife and I walked up that hill to the Kennedy Center many times.

我能听到你说：“你怎么知道这些？你只是一个经济学家，一个忧郁科学的实践者，“的确如此，但我和妻子多次登上那座山去甘乃迪中心。

wǒ néng tīng dào nǐ shuō ：“nǐ zěn me zhī dào zhè xiē ？nǐ zhī shì yī gè jīng jì xué jiā ，yī gè yōu yù kē xué de shí jiàn zhě ，“de què rú cǐ ，dàn wǒ hé qī zǐ duō cì dēng shàng nà zuò shān qù gān nǎi dí zhōng xīn 。

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