kk音标发音时应该注意些什么（我试着翻译了KK的这68条建议）
kk音标发音时应该注意些什么（我试着翻译了KK的这68条建议）（学习如何向那些你不认同的人学习，哪怕哪些是冒犯你的人。看看你是否能从他们的相信的事情里面中找到一些共鸣。）1、Learn how to learn from those you disagree with， or even offend you. See if you can find the truth in what they believe.为了保留原意，还是全部罗列，供大家自己去取舍。It’s my birthday. I’m 68. I feel like pulling up a rocking chair and dispensing advice to the young ‘uns. Here are 68 pithy bits of unsolicited advice which I offer as my birthday present to all of you
《失控》的作者凯文·凯利（Kevin Kelly，简称KK）68岁的生日的时候，曾在个人网站上，发表了一篇《给年轻人的68条建议》，谈自己的人生体会。
絮絮叨叨，但很有趣。
下面，我试着把这「68条建议」翻译一下，并且加入了自己的理解。
其中，有很多条，我并不认同，严重怀疑他是为了凑足68条，生写的。
为了保留原意，还是全部罗列，供大家自己去取舍。
It’s my birthday. I’m 68. I feel like pulling up a rocking chair and dispensing advice to the young ‘uns. Here are 68 pithy bits of unsolicited advice which I offer as my birthday present to all of you.
（今天是我的生日。我68岁了。我觉得要拉起一张摇椅，给年轻人提供建议。这里有68条不请自来的精辟建议，作为我送给你们所有人的生日礼物。）
1、Learn how to learn from those you disagree with， or even offend you. See if you can find the truth in what they believe.
（学习如何向那些你不认同的人学习，哪怕哪些是冒犯你的人。看看你是否能从他们的相信的事情里面中找到一些共鸣。）
2、Being enthusiastic is worth 25 IQ points.
（热忱可抵25个智商点。）
3、Always demand a deadline. A deadline weeds out the extraneous and the ordinary. It prevents you from trying to make it perfect so you have to make it different. Different is better.
（ 总是要求有最后期限。最后期限可以剔除不相干的东西和普通的东西。它可以防止你试图使它完美，所以你必须使它与众不同。不同就是更好。）
4、Don’t be afraid to ask a question that may sound stupid because 99% of the time everyone else is thinking of the same question and is too embarrassed to ask it.
（不要害怕问一个可能听起来很愚蠢的问题，因为99%的时候其他人都在想同样的问题，但却不好意思问。）
5、Being able to listen well is a superpower. While listening to someone you love keep asking them “Is there more?” until there is no more.
（倾听是一种超能力。在倾听你所爱的人时，不断问他们 「还有吗？」，直到没有了。）
6、A worthy goal for a year is to learn enough about a subject ，so that you can’t believe how ignorant you were a year earlier.
（年度最有价值的目标，是学习足够的知识。这会使你无法相信一年前自己是多么无知。）
7、Gratitude will unlock all other virtues and is something you can get better at.
（ 感恩将开启所有其他美德，是你可以变得更好的东西。）
翼之：感恩是一种高能量姿态。只有当你足够强大，足够自信的时候，才能够感恩。
8、Treating a person to a meal never fails and is so easy to do. It’s powerful with old friends and a great way to make new friends.
（请一个人吃一顿饭永远不会失败，而且很容易做到。与老朋友在一起很有力量，也是结交新朋友的好方法。）
翼之：一本书叫做《别独自用餐》。
9、Don’t trust all-purpose glue.
（不要相信万能的胶水。）
这句话说得并不是胶水。
10、Reading to your children regularly will bond you together and kick start their imaginations.
（经常给孩子们读书会使你们联系在一起并启动他们的想象力。）
11、Never use a credit card for credit. The only kind of credit or debt that is acceptable is debt to acquire something whose exchange value is extremely likely to increase like in a home. The exchange value of most things diminishes or vanishes the moment you purchase them. Don’t be in debt to losers.
（永远不要使用信用卡进行借贷。唯一可以接受的债务是用于购买可以带来价值的债务，比如房屋。大多数东西的价值在你购买它们的那一刻就会减少或消失了。）
翼之：区分消费和投资。
12、Pros are just amateurs who know how to gracefully recover from their mistakes.
（专业与业余的区别就是：他们知道如何优雅地从错误中恢复。）
13、Extraordinary claims should require extraordinary evidence to be believed.
（非凡的主张依赖非凡的证据。）
翼之：很多的时候，证据比主张更重要。
14、Don’t be the smartest person in the room. Hangout with and learn from people smarter than yourself. Even better find smart people who will disagree with you.
（不要成为房间里最聪明的人。去和那些比自己聪明的人交往，并向他们学习。最好是找到那些会与你意见相左的聪明人。）
翼之：王者与师处。
15、Rule of 3 in conversation. To get to the real reason ask a person to go deeper than what they just said. Then again and once more. The third time’s answer is close to the truth.
（谈话中的三条规则。为了找到真正的原因，找一个人比他们刚才说的更深入。然后再来一次，再来一次。第三次的答案就接近真相了。）
翼之：所有值得做的事，都值得做3遍。
16、Don’t be the best. Be the only.
（宁一勿最。）
翼之：在品牌学中，这一条是第一定律。如果你无法在一个品类中做到最好，那就自己开创一个品类。比如，
17、Everyone is shy. Other people are waiting for you to introduce yourself to them they are waiting for you to send them an email they are waiting for you to ask them on a date. Go ahead.
（每个人都是害羞的。其他人在等待你向他们介绍自己，他们在等待你向他们发送电子邮件，他们在等待你邀请他们约会。去吧，傻孩子。）
翼之：这一条是真的。
18、Don’t take it personally when someone turns you down. Assume they are like you: busy occupied distracted. Try again later. It’s amazing how often a second try works.
（ 当有人拒绝你时，不要太在意。假设他们和你一样：忙，被占用，分心。以后再试。令人惊讶的是，第二次尝试往往会奏效。）
19、The purpose of a habit is to remove that action from self-negotiation. You no longer expend energy deciding whether to do it. You just do it. Good habits can range from telling the truth to flossing.
（习惯的目的是将该行动从自我协商中移除。你不再花费精力来决定是否要做这件事。你只是做了它。好的习惯可以从说实话到使用牙线。）
20、Promptness is a sign of respect.
（及时性是尊重的标志。）
翼之：在工作中特别重要的一个能力，就是收到一个信息或者文档后，及时回复“收到”。
21、When you are young spend at least 6 months to one year living as poor as you can owning as little as you possibly can eating beans and rice in a tiny room or tent to experience what your “worst” lifestyle might be. That way any time you have to risk something in the future you won’t be afraid of the worst case scenario.
（当你年轻的时候，至少花6个月到1年的时间，尽可能地过着贫穷的生活，尽可能少地拥有自己的东西，以体验你 "最坏 "的生活方式可能是什么。这样一来，当你将来倒霉的时候，你就不会害怕最坏的情况了。）
翼之：亲测有效。当你经历过各种情况的时候，就会多出一种底气。
22、Trust me: There is no “them”.
（相信我。没有什么 「他们」。）
23、The more you are interested in others the more interesting they find you. To be interesting be interested.
（你越对别人越感兴趣，别人就越觉得你有趣。先让自己值得被爱。）
翼之：先让自己值得被爱。
24、 Optimize your generosity. No one on their deathbed has ever regretted giving too much away.
（优化你的慷慨。没有人在临终前会后悔付出了太多。）
25、To make something good just do it. To make something great just re-do it re-do it re-do it. The secret to making fine things is in remaking them.
（要做一件好事，就去做。要想做出伟大的东西，就重做，重做，重做。做出好东西的秘诀在于重塑它们。）
翼之：大多数好的创作，都不是第一次创作。
26、The Golden Rule will never fail you. It is the foundation of all other virtues.
（黄金法则永远不会让你失望。它是所有其他美德的基础。）
翼之：Golden Rule 可以理解为常识。比如这几条：做生意是要有本钱的，借钱是要还的，投资是要承担风险的，做坏事是要付出代价的。
27、If you are looking for something in your house and you finally find it when you’re done with it don’t put it back where you found it. Put it back where you first looked for it.
(如果你在家里找东西，最后找到了，当你用完后，不要把它放回你找到它的地方。把它放回你第一次寻找它的地方。)
28、Saving money and investing money are both good habits. Small amounts of money invested regularly for many decades without deliberation is one path to wealth.
( 存钱和投资都是好习惯。几十年来不假思索地定期投资少量资金是通向财富的一条道路。)
29、To make mistakes is human. To own your mistakes is divine. Nothing elevates a person higher than quickly admitting and taking personal responsibility for the mistakes you make and then fixing them fairly. If you mess up fess up. It’s astounding how powerful this ownership is.
(犯错误是人之常情。拥有自己的错误是神圣的。没有什么比迅速承认并为你所犯的错误承担个人责任，然后公平地纠正它们更能提升一个人的地位。如果你搞砸了，承认吧。这种力量是惊人的。)
30、Never get involved in a land war in Asia.
(永远不要卷入亚洲的陆地战争。)
31、You can obsess about serving your customers/audience/clients or you can obsess about beating the competition. Both work but of the two obsessing about your customers will take you further.
(你可以执着于服务你的客户/听众/客户，或者你可以执着于击败竞争对手。两者都有效，但在两者中，执着于你的客户会让你走得更远。)
32、Show up. Keep showing up. Somebody successful said: 99% of success is just showing up.
( 出场，不断出现。某位成功人士说。99%的成功来自出席。)
33、Separate the processes of creation from improving. You can’t write and edit or sculpt and polish or make and analyze at the same time. If you do the editor stops the creator. While you invent don’t select. While you sketch don’t inspect. While you write the first draft don’t reflect. At the start the creator mind must be unleashed from judgement.
( 把创作和改进的过程分开。你不能同时进行写作和编辑，或雕刻和抛光，或制作和分析。如果你这样做，编辑会阻止创造者。当你发明时，不要选择。当你画草图时，不要检查。当你写第一稿时，不要反思。在开始时，创造者的头脑必须从判断中解放出来。)
翼之：现在越来越重视涂鸦的力量。我们无法同时做到创造和整齐。
34、If you are not falling down occasionally you are just coasting.
(如果你没有偶尔摔倒，你就只是在滑行。)
35、Perhaps the most counter-intuitive truth of the universe is that the more you give to others the more you’ll get. Understanding this is the beginning of wisdom.
(也许宇宙中最反直觉的真理是，给予的越多，得到的就越多。了解这一点是智慧的开始。)
36、Friends are better than money. Almost anything money can do friends can do better. In so many ways a friend with a boat is better than owning a boat.
(朋友比金钱更好。几乎所有金钱能做的事，朋友都能做得更好。在许多方面，有船的朋友比拥有一艘船要好。)
37、This is true: It’s hard to cheat an honest man.
(这是真的：你很难欺骗一个坦诚的人。)
38、When an object is lost 95% of the time it is hiding within arm’s reach of where it was last seen. Search in all possible locations in that radius and you’ll find it.
(当一个物体丢失时，95%的时间它都藏在最后一次见到它的地方的咫尺范围内。在这个半径内所有可能的位置进行搜索，你就会找到它。)
39、You are what you do. Not what you say not what you believe not how you vote but what you spend your time on.
(你就是你所做的。不是你说什么，不是你相信什么，不是你如何投票，而是你把时间花在什么地方。)
40、If you lose or forget to bring a cable adapter or charger check with your hotel. Most hotels now have a drawer full of cables adapters and chargers others have left behind and probably have the one you are missing. You can often claim it after borrowing it.
(如果你丢失或忘记带电缆、适配器或充电器，请向你的酒店查询。现在大多数酒店都有一个抽屉，里面装满了别人留下的电缆、适配器和充电器，可能就有你丢失的那个。你通常可以在借到它之后认领它。)
翼之：别人犯错的地方，往往会有资源。
41、Hatred is a curse that does not affect the hated. It only poisons the hater. Release a grudge as if it was a poison.
(仇恨是一种诅咒。而且，仇恨不会影响被仇恨者，它只会毒害憎恨者。释放怨恨就像释放毒药一样。)
翼之：专注和自信，是同一个品质。
42、There is no limit on better. Talent is distributed unfairly but there is no limit on how much we can improve what we start with.
( 更好的东西是没有限制的。天赋的分配是不公平的，但我们能在多大程度上改善我们的起点是没有限制的。)
43、Be prepared: When you are 90% done any large project (a house a film an event an app) the rest of the myriad details will take a second 90% to complete.
( 做好准备。当你完成任何大型项目的90%时，其余的细节将需要第二个90%来完成。)
翼之：行百里者，半九十。
44、When you die you take absolutely nothing with you except your reputation.
（当你垂垂老去的时候，除了你的名誉，你绝对带不走任何东西。）
45、Before you are old attend as many funerals as you can bear and listen. Nobody talks about the departed’s achievements. The only thing people will remember is what kind of person you were while you were achieving.
（在你年老之前，尽可能多地参加你能承受的葬礼，并倾听。没有人会谈论离世者的成就。人们唯一会记得的是你在取得成就时是个什么样的人。）
46、 For every dollar you spend purchasing something substantial expect to pay a dollar in repairs maintenance or disposal by the end of its life.
（你每花一美元购买一件实质性的东西，就会在其生命结束时支付一美元的维修、保养或处理费用。）
47、Anything real begins with the fiction of what could be. Imagination is therefore the most potent force in the universe and a skill you can get better at. It’s the one skill in life that benefits from ignoring what everyone else knows.
（任何真实的东西都始于对可能发生的事情的虚构。因此，想象力是宇宙中最强大的力量，也是一种你可以变得更好的技能。它是生活中的一种技能，可以从忽视其他人知道的事情中获益。）
48、When crisis and disaster strike don’t waste them. No problems no progress.
（当危机和灾难来临时，不要浪费它们。没有麻烦，就没有进步。）
49、On vacation go to the most remote place on your itinerary first bypassing the cities. You’ll maximize the shock of otherness in the remote and then later you’ll welcome the familiar comforts of a city on the way back.
（ 度假时先去你行程中最偏远的地方，绕过城市。在偏远地区，你会最大限度地感受到另类的冲击，然后在回来的路上，你会喜欢上城市中熟悉的舒适。）
50、 When you get an invitation to do something in the future ask yourself: would you accept this if it was scheduled for tomorrow? Not too many promises will pass that immediacy filter.
（当你收到在未来做某事的邀请时，问问自己：如果是安排在明天，你会接受吗？没有太多的承诺会通过这种即时过滤。）
51、Don’t say anything about someone in email you would not be comfortable saying to them directly because eventually they will read it.
（不要在电子邮件中说任何你不愿意直接对他们说的关于某人的事情，因为最终他们会读到它。）
52、If you desperately need a job you are just another problem for a boss; if you can solve many of the problems the boss has right now you are hired. To be hired think like your boss.
（如果你迫切需要一份工作，你只是老板的另一个问题；如果你能解决老板现在的许多问题，你就会被录用。要想被雇用，就要像你的老板那样思考。）
53、Art is in what you leave out.
（艺术在于你不经意遗漏的东西。）
54、 Acquiring things will rarely bring you deep satisfaction. But acquiring experiences will.
（获得东西很少会给你带来深刻的满足感。但获得经验会。）
55、Rule of 7 in research. You can find out anything if you are willing to go seven levels. If the first source you ask doesn’t know ask them who you should ask next and so on down the line. If you are willing to go to the 7th source you’ll almost always get your answer.
（研究中的七规则。如果你愿意进入七个层次，你可以发现任何东西。如果你问的第一个来源不知道，就问他们你应该问下一个人，以此类推。如果你愿意去找第七个来源，你几乎总是能得到答案。）
56、How to apologize: Quickly specifically sincerely.
（ 如何道歉——快速、具体、真诚。）
57、Don’t ever respond to a solicitation or a proposal on the phone. The urgency is a disguise.
（永远不要在电话中回应招标或建议。迫切性是一种错觉。）
58、When someone is nasty rude hateful or mean with you pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.
（当有人对你讨厌、粗鲁、憎恨或刻薄时，假装他们有病。这使你更容易对他们产生共鸣，从而缓和冲突。）
59、Eliminating clutter makes room for your true treasures.
（消除杂乱无章的东西，为你真正的宝藏提供空间。）
60、You really don’t want to be famous. Read the biography of any famous person.
（阅读名人传记，也许会有惊喜。）
61、Experience is overrated. When hiring hire for aptitude train for skills. Most really amazing or great things are done by people doing them for the first time.
（经验总被高估。在招聘时，要为能力而招聘，为技能而培训。大多数真正惊人或伟大的事情都是由第一次做的人完成的。）
62、A vacation a disaster = an adventure.
（一个假期 一场灾难=一次冒险。）
63、Buying tools: Start by buying the absolute cheapest tools you can find. Upgrade the ones you use a lot. If you wind up using some tool for a job buy the very best you can afford.
（重视工具。从购买你能找到的绝对最便宜的工具开始。升级那些你经常使用的工具。如果你在工作中最终使用了某种工具，就买你能负担得起的最好的。）
64、Learn how to take a 20-minute power nap without embarrassment.
（学习如何在没有尴尬的情况下打20分钟的盹。）
65、 Following your bliss is a recipe for paralysis if you don’t know what you are passionate about. A better motto for most youth is “master something anything”. Through mastery of one thing you can drift towards extensions of that mastery that bring you more joy and eventually discover where your bliss is.
（对大多数年轻人来说，一个更好的座右铭是「一艺傍身」。通过对一件事的精熟，你可以朝着能给你带来更多快乐的方向发展延伸，并在那里邂逅你的幸福。）
66、 I’m positive that in 100 years much of what I take to be true today will be proved to be wrong maybe even embarrassingly wrong and I try really hard to identify what it is that I am wrong about today.
（我很肯定：100年后，我今天所认为的许多事情将被证明是错误的，甚至可能是令人尴尬的错误，但这并不影响我们非常努力地找出今天所错的地方。）
67、Over the long term the future is decided by optimists. To be an optimist you don’t have to ignore all the many problems we create; you just have to imagine improving our capacity to solve problems.
（从长远来看，未来是由乐观主义者决定的。要成为一个乐观主义者，你不必忽视我们制造的所有许多问题；你只需要想象改善我们解决问题的能力。）
68、The universe is conspiring behind your back to make you a success. This will be much easier to do if you embrace this pronoia.
（宇宙在你背后密谋，让你成功。如果你接受了这一原则，这将更容易做到。）
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