奇怪的算命真实故事(童年记忆之算命趣事)
奇怪的算命真实故事(童年记忆之算命趣事)算命的特别熟悉这种情况,如果丢失的羊不是被狼吃了,就会被某一家收留了,等着主人来认领。所以算命先生蒙对的概率是很高的。比如,我小时候住的那个小山村主要住着哈萨克族牧民,大家都会遇到马、牛、羊丢失的问题,焦虑的失主就会去算命,通常失主的脸会出卖他,算命先生看一眼就知道他是丢了牲畜,就开始玩概率,他会说你的羊正困在某处,好像是在某个人的羊圈里,这两天如果找不到,就凶多吉少了。这样的氛围下,如果我们对他提出质疑,就是我们在亵渎他的神灵,而且他也会把自己的失误圆回来。有一次,他说妈妈有七个姊妹,我立刻反驳,他气炸了,妈妈吓傻了。因为妈妈家共五个姊妹,最后,这位算命先生对自己的失误解释说:因为今天他接待了太多,导致了他的神灵特别疲乏,难免会有些差错。算命者用这样的迷信的东西来蛊惑群众,伎俩实在可恶!伎俩二 :知晓通常事例法则生活在同一地域的,同一文化背景下的人们,通常有着共同的风俗习惯,生活习惯,遇
曾经有一度妈妈热衷于找算命先生给她看相,当时人们文化程度不高,比较迷信,村里人都喜欢找人算命,每次算命妈妈会带上我,久而久之,我对他们使用的伎俩醍醐灌顶,这让妈妈很生气,因为你让一个人坚信的东西开始在她心里动摇时,她会很痛苦的。这也是我和妈妈第一次在认知方面产生很大分歧。
伎俩1.
制造神秘感
算命的通常会制造看上去很惊悚且神秘的氛围。比如这位妈妈经常带我去的算命先生,他嘴里念叨着我们听不懂的语言,据说是阿拉伯语,旁边的助手说他在诵读,他时而很激动,时而很安静,喃喃自语,他的助手解释说他在和他的神灵对话。他看上去目空一切,眼睛像把利剑,好像可以穿透我的身体,这一切营造出一种绝对权威的气氛。
这样的氛围下,如果我们对他提出质疑,就是我们在亵渎他的神灵,而且他也会把自己的失误圆回来。有一次,他说妈妈有七个姊妹,我立刻反驳,他气炸了,妈妈吓傻了。因为妈妈家共五个姊妹,最后,这位算命先生对自己的失误解释说:因为今天他接待了太多,导致了他的神灵特别疲乏,难免会有些差错。算命者用这样的迷信的东西来蛊惑群众,伎俩实在可恶!
伎俩二 :知晓通常事例法则
生活在同一地域的,同一文化背景下的人们,通常有着共同的风俗习惯,生活习惯,遇到的生活问题也带有普遍性,算命者知晓通常事例法则。
比如,我小时候住的那个小山村主要住着哈萨克族牧民,大家都会遇到马、牛、羊丢失的问题,焦虑的失主就会去算命,通常失主的脸会出卖他,算命先生看一眼就知道他是丢了牲畜,就开始玩概率,他会说你的羊正困在某处,好像是在某个人的羊圈里,这两天如果找不到,就凶多吉少了。
算命的特别熟悉这种情况,如果丢失的羊不是被狼吃了,就会被某一家收留了,等着主人来认领。所以算命先生蒙对的概率是很高的。
看年龄;如果是老人,算命先生知道老人算命无非就是担心身体,我住的那个地方属于高海拔地区,冬季寒冷又漫长,老人们得关节炎,心脏病比较多。算命先生就会说最近老人心脏不舒服,胸闷,头疼,腿疼等。会经常梦到往生,应该宰只羊来祭拜一下。
伎俩三
经验法则:
后来我发现许多在街头算命的是很厉害的观察者和心理学家,他们善于观察,然后作出合理推测。他们认真观察人们走路的方式,最初打招呼的方式,穿着打扮的方式。
他们是微表情专家。面部微表情是最易了解真相的,看到愁眉苦脸的年轻女孩,就知道一定是爱情受挫了,看到一脸无辜比较娇羞的女孩,那绝对是向往爱情了。看见学生模样稚气的面孔就知道要考学了,看见饱经风霜的脸就可以推测他是干体力活的。
有一次我表姐算命,表姐长得特漂亮,高挑的个子,白皙的皮肤,算命先生告诉她,追她的男生很多,其中有一个因为个子矮了些被拒绝了,其实很爱她,表姐很惊讶,真的有一个这样的男生被她拒绝过。我心想漂亮女孩追的人可能很多呀,里面出现矮个子的概率不低呀,矮个子被高个子女生拒绝的概率也不低呀!谁还算不出来呀!
所以,算命先生根本算不出你的未来,他们只是胡猜乱蒙,命运还是掌握在自己手里。
There was a time when people in our village were keen on going to the fortuneteller to have their fortunes read among whom was my Mum. She would take me on a regular basis As time went by I found myself having some kind of epiphany which cast light upon their tricks of trade. Mum was very depressed because when you shake the belief that one has long held it is heartbreaking.As far as I'm concerned It is the first time that there have been a substantial divergence in cognition between Mum and me.
tricks of trade 1:
Create very mysterious atmosphere
Fortunetellers often create a seemingly sacred and mysterious atmosphere by their settings and speaking something unintelligible.
Take the Fortuneteller that Mum used to visit for instance his assistant said he spoke Arabian and His assistant claimed that he was talking with his jinn in a loud voice and in a whisper alternately and his authority was not allowed to be challenged.if so It seemed as if it was blasphemy for him . for instance on one occasion he said Mum had seven siblings and I said "No " in retort which made him hit the ceiling.Mum was paralyzed with fear.Later He explained that his jinn was exhausted because he had told too many fortunes thus causing that error.By using such tricks to fool the people the Fortunetellers are very mean.
Tricks of trade 2
Get the hang of everything that common to the specific people and area.
For instance My hometown a small village was mainly inhabited by nomadic Kazak ethnic group .As is often the case many people would lose their livestock for example if a shepherd lost one of his sheep he would go to the Fortuneteller and normally his concerned face gave him away. the Fortuneteller told him that his sheep was caged in someone's pen if not found in one or two days it would be at stake. Obviously the Fortuneteller had a good command of probability: At that time a lost sheep would be either eaten by a wolf or caged by a fellow shepherd waiting for its owner to claim it.
Tricks of trade 3.
Rule of thumb 经验法则
Many Fortunetellers are good observer .They closely observe the way people walk their initial greetings and their clothes.
They are also good microexpression experts. because faces and eyes are most revealing: a weathered face denotes he or she might do manual work;A depressed face of a young girl infers she might be dumped by her boy friend and a timid and flushed face suggests the girl longs for love…
Once My cousin went to have her fortune told and She is slim and tall with a fair complexion.The fortuneteller told her that she had loads of suitors among whom was a short guy who was declined. My cousin was stunned thinking he was uncanny really. but Do you think it hard to perceive a beautiful girl with lots of wooers among whom there should be one who is short and homely -looking?
In conclusion Fortunetellers never know what your future is in store for you! You are the architect of your own destiny.