自己晚安暖心句子（当我开始真正爱自己）
自己晚安暖心句子（当我开始真正爱自己）不论是饮食和人物，还是事情和环境，我远离一切让我远离本真的东西。当我开始真正爱自己，我开始远离一切不健康的东西。After contacting all kinds of people I slowly understand that not all good tempers can get good results.Some people don't think in other places at all and they won't become easy to talk because of your soft attitude. If you give back more the other party wants more.At this time if you want to protect yourself you have to lose you
接触到各式各样的人之后慢慢才懂，并不是所有的好脾气都能得到好结果。
有些人是根本不会换位思考的，更不会因为你态度软变得好说话。你多退一点，对方就想多索取一点。
这时候想要自我保护就得发脾气，硬碰硬，只有爆发才能让别人知道你的边界在哪里。
After contacting all kinds of people I slowly understand that not all good tempers can get good results.
Some people don't think in other places at all and they won't become easy to talk because of your soft attitude. If you give back more the other party wants more.
At this time if you want to protect yourself you have to lose your temper and hit hard. Only by breaking out can you let others know where your boundary is.
当我开始真正爱自己，我开始远离一切不健康的东西。
不论是饮食和人物，还是事情和环境，我远离一切让我远离本真的东西。
从前我把这叫做“追求健康的自私自利”，但今天我明白了，这是「爱自己」。
When I began to really love myself I began to stay away from all unhealthy things.
Whether it's food and people or things and environment I stay away from everything that keeps me away from the real thing.
I used to call this "the pursuit of healthy selfishness" but today I understand that this is "love yourself".
喜欢傅首尔这段话：
我人生最大的遗憾就是，在我的少女时代，从来没有觉得自己漂亮。
如今我已经三十八岁了， 有时候我看到自己大笑的样子，我发自内心地觉得 ，真好啊！这个女的，笑得这么灿烂。
其实我最大的成就，是终于学会欣赏自己 一个长相平平的女人，如何活得精彩。
一旦你停止羡慕别人，欣赏自己，就根本不存在什么 长相平平。
Like Fu Seoul's words:
The biggest regret in my life is that I never felt beautiful when I was a girl.
Now I'm thirty-eight years old. Sometimes I see myself laughing. I feel from my heart that it's good! This woman smiles so brightly.
In fact my greatest achievement is to finally learn to appreciate how a plain looking woman can live a wonderful life.
Once you stop admiring others and appreciating yourself there is no plain face at all.
你说风中有座无人的桥， 仅供灵魂一步一拜倒。
你说人间行者心比天高，丢下的梦想摞叠破晓。
说神鬼隐藏救世良药，俗人嗔痴中病入膏肓。
你说今晚的月色来得巧， 趁四野无人偷他一笑。
可我只想告诉你，虽然我的皮囊不一定美，但我的灵魂足够高贵。
You said there was an unmanned bridge in the wind only for the soul to bow down step by step.
You say that the hearts of human walkers are higher than the sky and the dreams left are piled up at dawn.
It is said that gods and ghosts hide the good medicine for saving the world and ordinary people are terminally ill in anger and infatuation.
You said the moon came tonight.
But I just want to tell you that although my skin is not necessarily beautiful my soul is noble enough.
其实“心机”每个人都有，成年人谁都不是傻子，那些绵里藏针、话里有话之类的怎么可能听不出来。
只是对我来说，是觉得没必要，简单一点不好吗，为什么非要搞得那么复杂。
不是不会用，是不想用。
In fact everyone has "tricks". No adult is a fool. How can those hidden needles and words not be heard.
Just for me I don't think it's necessary to be simple. Why should it be so complicated.
It's not that I can't use it. I don't want to use it.
也许有点不近人情，但还是想说，按时还钱本来就天经地义，不管我最近缺不缺钱，即使我刚中了一百万，你也应该如期归还本就属于我的钱。
Maybe it's a little unkind but I still want to say that it's natural to pay back the money on time. Whether I'm short of money recently or not even if I just won a million you should return the money that belongs to me on time.
感觉要进入乱纪元了。
现在，不论做什么，都谈不上计划了，旅行，探亲，出差，稍微远一点的事情都没法计划。
如果工作和人群聚集相关，那就完全不可能有计划了。
只能做简单的事情，短平快的事情 。
It feels like an era of chaos.
Now no matter what you do you can't plan. Travel family visits business trips and things a little farther away can't be planned.
If work is related to crowd gathering there is no plan at all.
Can only do simple things short and fast things.
心理学中有个词叫投射现象，是指将自己的特点归因到其他人身上的倾向。
所以不要随便给别人下定义，很可能你以为别人是那样的，其实“那个人”就是你自己。
In psychology there is a word called projection phenomenon which refers to the tendency to attribute one's own characteristics to others.
So don't define others casually. You may think others are like that. In fact the "that person" is yourself.
真的不要再为那些不值得的人伤心流眼泪了，要把那么好那么好的自己留给在意你的人。
你很珍贵，你的可爱很珍贵，你的奇奇怪怪很珍贵，你和你的一切都不该被无视被冷漠。
Really don't cry for those who aren't worth it. Leave yourself so good to those who care about you.
You are very precious your lovely is very precious your strange is very precious you and your everything should not be ignored or indifferent.
【图源：-阿莘- 】
